There are pivotal moments in life that can shift your trajectory by 360 degrees—times when paths cross unexpectedly, propelling you in a direction you never anticipated.
A year ago, I relocated to Houston following a devastating turn of events. I left behind a business I had poured my heart into, friends who supported me without reservation, and a world that felt like my safe haven—all while preparing for law school. I made sacrifices, studied for the LSAT, and even sought letters of recommendation, determined to chase my childhood dream. Yet, despite my efforts, something just didn’t click.
In the midst of this transition, I found myself on a quest to discover my true purpose. I searched for meaning in my job, my family, and within myself, but as I watched others thrive, I felt increasingly lost, unsure of what I truly wanted out of life.
Then, during a seemingly random conversation, everything changed. I remembered how far I’d come, the trauma I’d endured, and the strength I possessed. I was gaining clarity on my purpose, and it was all because of a stranger.
One afternoon, while sitting alone, escaping my reality, I was approached by a woman I had seen the day before. She looked a bit disheveled, yet nothing suggested she had been beaten by life. As we engaged in small talk, it became clear she was her own worst bully, speaking with fear and worry about her future. This woman, barely 5 feet tall and weighing around 100 pounds, lit a cigarette and described her life as "rough”, lowering her head in shame. I sat there, thinking to myself, a year ago, I might have echoed her same sentiments.
In our brief conversation, she revealed the trials she faced growing up—overcoming poverty and escaping abuse. She mentioned her simple talents and that she ranked in the top twenty of her graduating class, appearing to be seeking my approval. What she didn’t realize was the incredible power she possessed for having survived her struggles alone.
In 2019, I founded The Auld Foundation to empower women to become more than they ever thought possible. The foundation aimed to help women find their place in society, instilling self-belief and providing tools to remain relevant in their lives. Yet, when my own life felt like it was crumbling, I abandoned that vision. I hid behind the perceptions of others, opting for agreement over advocacy.
That brief interaction with this stranger illuminated my path and clarified my purpose. The Auld Foundation is crucial for women like her—and let’s be honest, for women like me, too.
Over the past year, I became my own worst critic, allowing others' perceptions to dictate my self-worth. At times, it was crippling, and I lost the courage to defend the little girl inside who has spent her life trying to fit in. But I’m reminded again that I was never meant to blend in; I was meant to stand out.
Women are uniquely powerful, yet we often question where we belong. I had so much healing to do myself that I was convinced I couldn’t help others until I was at my best. This limiting belief has echoed in my mind for over two years, and I believe I have even convinced others of it, not deliberately, but it did allow their perception of me to be my truth.
We often endure the struggles life throws our way, taking beatings that can leave us feeling defeated. There are times when we stay down, accepting the pain as part of our reality. But then, a moment arrives—a spark ignites within us, prompting a powerful realization: ENOUGH.
It’s not that these truths are new; they’ve always existed.
So why does it feel like an epiphany now? I believe it’s because I’ve finally chosen to recognize my own worth. I’ve opened my life to those who also see it, allowing their support and affirmation to lift me up. I no longer cling to my struggles; instead, I embrace the strength they’ve given me, using it to forge a brighter path forward.
There are so many more women out there like me, wanting to do their best and still hiding in the shadows of people’s perceptions. We deserve more! This is why I am returning to my role as Director of The Auld Foundation, making space for women to find courage to be who they are meant to be!
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